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Jim Azar
January 6, 1956 - October
15, 1998
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James G. Azar was born to
Syrian-Lebanese parents on the sixth of January,
1956 in Brooklyn, New York. He was the eldest
of four children. In 1960 his family moved to
Hollywood, Florida. He graduated from Nova High
School, an academic scholar, receiving honors
in the Westinghouse Science Talent Search and
National Forensics League.
He served his country as a member of the U.S.
Army Intelligence Corps between 1976 and 1979
where he served as an interrogator.
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Jim was also a member of Hall/Hill Performing
Arts... when it all began and is perhaps, best
remembered for his rendition of I Want To Be
Happy with Cookie Latham in 1974. This memorable
event was re-created in the first alumni show
"Singing Our Own Song" in June 1998.
Jim was a poet ("Arrival: One or Only?")
, successful business man, actor, playwright,
friend and father. He leaves behind a wonderful
family of siblings, and parents, wife Cindy,
daughter Brittany, and the Hall/Hill Performing
Arts troupe.
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Jim was taken from us on October 15, 1998.
Our wonderful, eloquent friend...
We so miss you. |
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MickeyRose Anthony (Hawley), Jim Azar, Cindy
Azar, Mike Kessler
Tributes From Friends
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From MickeyRose Anthony (Hawley)
Prince Jim, I just had to tell you one last
time, that I love you. I'll see you on the other
side. You will know me, and I will know you,
without a doubt. Until then, I will hold you
in my heart, my beloved soul brother. With perpetual
love, I am your MickeyRose
From Alma Anthony Nemrava
We are all richer for having known Jim Azar.
His tender, all-embracing love helped me to
hope for some nobility in my own humanity. I
never knew him to do a mean thing. If he had
any fault, it was over-writing. Language, even
poetry, falls short of what his big generous
soul gallantly tried to communicate to us. I
have gathered it up; the sweetness. the exaggeration,
the profound image of his falling on his knees
in the cemetery, and I hold it all fast in my
heart.
Weeping, Alma Anthony Nemrava |
From Mike Kessler
I didn't know Jim Azar well in high school.
In fact, I really only got to know him in the
two months before he died. Still, words and
feelings keep flowing out of me. I could easily
write a book about what I learned about life
from Jim Azar in two months.
There is one incident which captures the essence
of Jim for me. We saw each other only once since
we left Nova, when he, his wife Cindy, Rose
(Mickey Anthony) Hawley and I had lunch together
over Labor Day weekend. Jim already knew he
had cancer, and knew he was going to have a
lung removed. He was scared, but also invigorated
and energized, almost hyper-alive.
Jim and Mickey went outside to smoke a cigarette
at one point. Cindy and I stayed in the restaurant
and talked. Jim strode back in, grabbed me,
and kissed me firmly on the lips. Needless to
say, I was shocked and a little perplexed. Then
he said something along the lines of "I
love you, man." There was certainly nothing
romantic in any of this, that was clear. Although
I am gay, Jim was definitely not. But I couldn't
help but think about the meaning of this kiss.
With that one act, he said to me what words
could never fully express: "I trust you,
I respect you, your gayness doesn't scare me
because it is but one part of you, you are not
invisible, you are not forgotten, you are important…."
With that gesture, he has caused me to re-examine
my life every day, to question and dispel many
of my insecurities and misconceptions, to never
stop questioning who I am and where I fit in
the world. Jim changed so many of our lives
that it gives me comfort to think he will live
on in us and in those whose lives we touch.
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From Mike Brannon
On my last visit to Washington in April of
this year, my family spent a day with Jim A.
and his wonderful family. It was the second
time that our families had the opportunity to
spend time together and we did the usual tourist
stuff in the capital.
When we reached the Jefferson Memorial, there
was a tribute to Jefferson going on that was
to last an hour. As a result, the monument was
closed during that time period. After the passage
of 90 minutes, the supposed dignitaries were
still milling around the steps while hundreds
of citizens were waiting in the hot sun for
the re-opening of the monument.
At that point, Jim A. began to shout "Hey,
get those people out of there! I am a citizen
of the United States and I demand that my monument
be cleared immediately". Television cameras
turned towards Jim and his wife attempted to
quietly usher him away. Jim persisted "Thomas
Jefferson would be appalled at you people blocking
the citizens of this union from exercising their
rights in a free republic! This is a civil protest
and I demand that you clear away from my monument!"
Although the police approached Jim, the presence
of the television cameras kept them at bay and
a crowd began to form around Jim. At that point
an amazing thing occurred.......dignataries
were quickly ushered away from the monument
steps and the waiting citizens were allowed
immediate access to Mr. Jefferson!
Jim smiled proudly as we had our photos taken
at the top of the monument steps. That is how
I will always remember my best friend.....howling
against the injustices of the world and making
others stronger and more aware by his own example.
I will eternally feel a great loss over the
absence of Jim Azar, but I will always be grateful
for the many things that I would have never
had without him. Thank-you Jim for not going
easily into the night....... |
From Caron Conway de Salazar
... JeffR and BruceS joined us later. We toasted
the gentle Bear of a man with the soul of a
Poet, and felt Jim's spirit around us. My deepest,
heartfelt condolences to Jim's many loved ones.
I did not know him as well as I would have liked
to, but he touched my life in such a profound
way. Jim's honesty, humor, sensitivity and courage
are an inspiration. Thank-you, Jim, for my renewed
appreciation of Life and its many wondrous gifts.
The believer believes: 'Tis a far better place
for which he leaves. This is for everyone out
there who is hurting tonight:
"UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN" Don't want
to say good-bye,/
But it's not your choice, I know./
That doesn't make it easier;/
I'll miss you more than you could ever know./
And it's hurting me already/
To know you won't be here/
To share my schemes, my fears, my dreams,/
To wipe away my tears./
But don't think that I'll forget you/
After you're gone./
Even after life has ended,/
Love burns strong./
And farewell is not forever;/
No, this is not the end./
Somewhere along that lonely journey,/
I'll be seeing you again./
And till then, my memories will keep me warm,/
My memories of you, my friend./
I can't hold you in my arms,/
But I'll hold you in my heart till then./
Until we meet again. . .
Peace and love to all, Caron |
Diane Sherman Maier
I knew Jim Azar's name growing up because he was
a friend of Steves. I would hear funny stories that
Steve would tell all of us at our dinner table. When
the reunion idea first came about, people starting
going into chat rooms and one night Jim and I were
in the same room. I don't remember who else was there.
We were having so much fun with our wacked sences
of humor and we continued to meet and chat a few more
times. I knew something was up when he just disappeared
from the net. Of course the reunion responsibilities
had taken over my life, so I just shrugged my shoulders.
When I saw him at the reunion, the first thing I asked
him was where he had been. Being my usual self, I
told him that I had missed him online and that we
would have to get back to that down the road. When
he responded his voice was very hoarse. I knew something
was wrong. I sqeezed his hand and he looked at me
with those, well you know, those eyes. I feel really
lucky that I got to spend some online time with him
and that I got to hug him often at the reunion. I
feel, as I always do, sad that he is not with us,
his wife and daughter, his really close friends. But
I do believe that he is now part of something so so
great. It is only sad for us, because we don't get
to have him here as we know him. But contrary to others
beliefs, I know he is in an awsome place where all
his poetry comes together. I will think of Jim just
the way he would want me to, and I will smile.
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Tributes From Friends
From Roger Davies
Dear Jim:
There is a richness in the friendships born in childhood
that does not diminish with the passing of time.
Our adolesence was spent the on the football field.
You were Carl Eller, I was Jim Brown. It was spent
at 3:00 am across the chessboard; you... the risk-taker
Spassky/Karpov, I the analytic Fischer. Your risks
were often your undoing.
We both tried to sing and act... we weren't very
good but we did have fun didn't we Henry Higgins?
Didn't we MacDuff? Didn't we...
Our days were spent at your mother's dinner table
learning to eat exotic foods that I love still today.
It was your dog "King," the old Ford, sleep-overs
on the bahama beds, Aunt Rose's coffee, research papers
for the senior class, Jonathan Livingston Seagull,
Dawn's birthday falling on mine, and encouraging words
when a girl turned you down over the phone. And oh...
your stories made me smile.
We didn't change much, did we my friend? I remained
the analytic and you the risk taker until the end.
And there was the exchange of encouraging words. The
stories. The renewal of two young boy's fantasies
for the future. Hold my place at the chess table,
Mr Azar. en passant refuses to acknowledge checkmate.
Pickering
From Jeff Saver
Went to the park today for a while. Beautiful sunny
day. Leaves changing- gorgeous- blue skies ..... James
everywhere.
From Gary Mendelson
I have to say I looked up into the sky just the other
day after Jim's death and saw that one more star is
dancing...
...we will sure miss your kind and gentle spirit.
Sleep with the angels.
Love and light... Gary
From Kasey Gittleman
today, I had to say goodbye, now I know it's not a
lie, it's not supposed to end this way, the silence
is deafening me. Did the angels sing, when they came
to stay, were the colors as brilliant as I always
thought they would be and would you save a place for
me?
Kasey
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